Are black women too independent?

The comments and thoughts in this blog doesnt apply to ALL black women as all of you arent this way and dont think nor act this way in any shape, form or fashion. But what is said needs to be said...and said to those who really feel something from this...

A friend recently asked me...."did you know that 43% of black woman have never been married compared to 20% of white females?" Thats not a shock to me. Black men are choosing white women over their own black sisters. She also said "i find that investing a lot of energy into a person and trying to overwhelm them often goes unappreciated and ignored. I am a good catch...on my grind/independent, have motherly instinct, amazing cook... but guys seem to shy away cuz their not lookin for someone to do ALL of that with or for them or you have the guys who take advantage and dont appreciate it." So I thought about it for all of about 10 seconds...and the brilliant, quick responsive mind goes to work.

NOW....time for the response of Young Doogie himself...Simply...

Are you ready? Here it goes. HEAR ME OUT... like it, hate it, or love it...the truth and nothing but the truth...


Black women say that white women are submissive, soft and allow men to walk all over them. Black women also say that black men run to white women because they give them what they want. Maybe it is perceived wrong. From what I have heard...white women let the man be the man. They let him put food on table. They let him make household decisions. They make him feel good about being him.

I love black women and dont want anything else. BUT...black women have so much drive to be independent that they end up just that...independent...meaning alone....by them damn selves. When a man doesnt get in relationship, yall say we scared of commitment. When a woman doesnt get in relationship, yall say yall independent. Black women dont wanna let a man be a man, dont wanna let him be head of household, dont wanna let him do for his black queen out of will...black women wanna demand it. For some reason, it is not enough for a black woman to know she the shit. She wanna hear it. She wanna show everybody that she on her game. She wanna voice it, demonstrate her power and her ability to not need a nigga. You dont have to speak...greatness is recognized. With force comes counterforce. so as long as independent women try to force men around and demonstrate balls, men will shy away from them and do something...or someone else!!! Then they turn around and wonder...why doesnt he wanna commit? why did he cheat? why he going to other races? Thats the truth. Im a real nigga so Im not afraid of what comments will come back to me. I voice what alot of men would be scared to say...and would do it in a hair salon early on saturday morning filled with the most male bashing, swear they independent women alive....lol...while getting more and more weave put in...just joking...LMAO. But ladies, Im not saying let them force you around. Don't be a rug. Its a 2-way street. Just let them have what God gave him...his balls. A black man doesnt want a women that is walking her own pace in front of him or on different road. He wants a black women that is going to stand beside him, walk beside him and let him pick her up when she tired. He wants a teammate, not an individual....or should i say LIFE-mate.

Now for me...and to save my face...AGAIN, that doesnt mean im gonna run to a white woman, ill just wait n be alone until i find a black woman that fits me. BUT its a damn shame that I cant say that other black men will be loyal to our black queens and our strong race and do the same. I want a strong independent black woman. I can handle one. Thats the only type of woman my family breeds so been around them all my life. But the difference is...I dont want my girl, fiance, wife to demonstrate to me how independent she is. It would be a waste of breath. I will make her feel and believe for the rest of her life that she is black, strong, independent, loving, nurturing in her own right......and loved, respected, and supported by this strong black man. Other black men must do the same.

Wise words of Simply....

BLACK WOMEN, TELL ME SOMETHING...SPEAK UP!!!